Friday, August 28, 2009

Pregnancy Update : The Journey So Far

Well, I'm at Week 22 now (that's 5.5 months). At my last post, I was at Week 16.

6 weeks have passed. And well... they haven't been easy ones!

Oh I WISH I was one of those women who glowed with pregnancy joy, wore cool, hip maternity clothes that showed off their cute bumps, and enjoyed rosy cheeks and lustrous hair thanks to all the hormones!

But I'm not. Life goes on. I have to move on!

So, yes, I suffered another relapse (details of which I hate to recount) but thanks to medical attention and a LOT of care from Shaman, my folks and my in-laws, I'm recuperating.

AND I am determined not to let this morning sickness get the better of me or cause me any more misery! I want to remember EVERYDAY that this pregnancy is a gift, something both Shaman & I wanted so very much and prayed so very hard for. And I'm almost desperate to enjoy it.
Some updates on my pregnancy so far:-
Weight Gain
Or should I say 'loss'? :) Needless to say, with all the vomiting, not only have I NOT gained wieght, I've lost weight! My gynae isn't too alarmed by this at all. The baby's growing well and that's what really matters!

It is a bummer though, that my baby bump, though it's there, hardly shows :( I can still fit easily into my regular clothes, although I do use maternity tops occasionally. Totally love it's loseness around my belly!

Just can't wait for that bump to start showing!

Food Cravings
Or should I say 'aversions'? :)) There's almost nothing that I crave for and PLENTY that I'm totally avert against. Burgers - YUCK! Steak - NO WAY! Desserts, Cakes, Sweets - BLEAH! Soups, Pies, Pastry - Ewwww!!

So, while planning my diet hasn't exactly been easy, Sham and my folks have been diligently suggesting and buying different types of foods and drinks to keep me constantly hydrated and well nourished.

Baby's Growth
Like I mentioned earlier, my baby's growing well, just well! For this, I'm ever grateful. We did a detailed scan of baby last week and everything's just perfect - every organ, muscle, bone. Praise God.

The best part of the baby growing, is that it's staring to KICK! They're more like flutters actually and I feel them constantly in my belly! Oh how I LOVE 'em flutters! It's feels like my baby's communicating with me and that's just awesome!

Morning Sickness
It's hasn't left me yet but I never stop hoping. I'll have great days without ANY nausea, am able to go to work and actually perform, go shopping, get my nails done, hangout with Sham and then the next day BAM! everything just falls apart and I'm well... getting sick all over again.

But like I said, after 5.5 months, I've decided enough is enough. The morning sickness may weaken my body, but it ain't gonna weaken my mind! And how am I gonna make that happen? More on that in my next post!
"Strength does not come from physical capacity.
It comes from an indomitable will."
~ Mahatma Gandhi

Tuesday, August 4, 2009

On Moving On... And Staying the Same!

We had a great time Friday night. Sham & I had our friends from church over for a (very) late housewarming party.
We didn't want to bother with sorting dinner out, so we catered.
Turned out to be a great idea cos we got to spend all our time talking and chatting and laughing and catching up with everyone.

We all met about 8 years ago, as singles or newly weds. The subject of conversations then were the latest movies, weekend plans, career ambitions, holiday destinations, etc.

NOW... here we were, all gathered together with pregnant bellies, diaper bags, toys stuffed into handbags, toddlers at the hip, talking about baby bearing, child-raising, home renovations, recipes, etc.

Yup, time flies. And boy, I can't believe how we've grown.... to people with serious responsiblities!! Us! We could hardly believe it ourselves.

What is great though (and a huge relief) is knowing that some things... don't change!
Like our ability to make each other laugh loud and crazy and have an AWESOME fun time together!

And for that, I shout a loud and hearty 'AMEN'!